Newborn Essentials I Actually Used (and 12 I Returned)
The short list that got us through the first twelve weeks, and the gear that went back in the box.
Before my first was born I bought everything on a 140-item registry. By week twelve, about a third of it was still in the box. This is the list I'd give my sister: the gear that got used every single day, and the gear that went back.
What we actually used · 12 things
Zip-up sleep sack
Best overallNo velcro to wake anyone up at 2am. The two-way zip means diaper changes without unzipping everything.
Bought four. Used all four, every night.
Bedside bassinet
Best for night feedsThe side lowers so baby sits level with your bed. After a C-section, not having to get up made a real difference.
The one thing I'd buy again first.
White noise machine
Best budget pickOur older one sounded like a hairdryer. This one has a real low hum and a night light you can dim.
Still running two years later.
Electric nasal aspirator
Best for coldsOur first newborn cold, and nothing else worked. Quiet enough that she didn't scream at it.
Gross. Essential.
Hooded towels, set of 3
Best small buyA slippery baby in a tiny hood is easier than one in a big bath sheet. Go for the bigger size.
Small thing, used daily.
Zip-front sleepers, 0–3 months
Best for 3am changesSnaps in the dark are a special kind of torture. A zip that runs from ankle to chin means a change takes seconds.
I gave away every snap sleeper.
Swaddle with arm-out option
Best for startle reflexIt gave us longer stretches in the early weeks. The arms come out when baby starts showing signs of rolling, which is when you stop swaddling.
Worked until it didn't, then we moved to the sleep sack.
Portable changing pad
Best for going outIt folds flat with a wipes pocket and two diapers inside. I kept one in the car and one by the sofa.
Cleaner than any public changing table.
Baby nail file, electric
Best for nervous parentsI was terrified of the clippers. The gentle pads file tiny nails while they sleep, with no chance of nicking skin.
No more scratched cheeks.
Soft structured carrier
Best for hands-freeEasier than a wrap once baby is heavier, and it spreads the weight across your hips. Check that it has a newborn setting.
Dinner got cooked again.
Burp cloths, pack of 10
Best cheap buyYou'll use more than you think. The long, curved ones actually cover your shoulder.
Buy double. Seriously.
Digital thermometer (rectal + forehead)
Best for peace of mindPediatricians usually recommend rectal readings for young babies. Ask yours, and keep a forehead one for quick checks.
Hope you rarely need it. Glad to have it.
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The 12 I returned
Not bad products, just ones we didn't need. Skip these unless you have a specific reason.
This post contains affiliate links. I only include products I've bought and used myself. Prices were correct when I wrote this and do change. This isn't medical advice, so for sleep safety, follow the AAP guidelines and ask your pediatrician.
